First Sedoretu Ship?

[anxious_songbird]

What was the first ship you shipped like a sedoretu?

Were you aware yet what a sedoretu was? Do you imagine this ship on planet O or do you make AUs for them? Why do you think this ship works well as a sedoretu?

Comments

Re: Yes ...

[nonesensed]

I've never lived in America, so I'm very out of the loop with how gender and gender presentation is like over there in everyday life (especially since it's such a huge place with so much people). I'm going off my own experiences here in Sweden, where gender confusion happens every now and then, especially with pre-teen children.

Yeah, children in sedoretu culture are lucky in the sense that its much "harder" for them to become full orphaned. And a sedoretu couple finding a new fourth is likely not done quickly or easily. Finding a new spouse and co-parent is tricky enough when there's just one person's tastes and preferences to go after, much less when three people need to agree on a fourth one to bring in (speaking from some experience there, to I'm thankfully not a window in any sense of the word).

Re: Yes ...

[ysabetwordsmith]

>> I've never lived in America, so I'm very out of the loop with how gender and gender presentation is like over there in everyday life (especially since it's such a huge place with so much people). <<

Yeah, it's kind of a mishmash, and there are a lot of different styles. Southern women are still more inclined to wear skirts or dresses, and so on.

>> I'm going off my own experiences here in Sweden, where gender confusion happens every now and then, especially with pre-teen children.<<

It happens here too sometimes. Most people find that kind of awkward.

>> Yeah, children in sedoretu culture are lucky in the sense that its much "harder" for them to become full orphaned. <<

True. It's why so many historic societies allowed for plural marriages of various types.

>> And a sedoretu couple finding a new fourth is likely not done quickly or easily. Finding a new spouse and co-parent is tricky enough when there's just one person's tastes and preferences to go after, much less when three people need to agree on a fourth one to bring in (speaking from some experience there, to I'm thankfully not a window in any sense of the word).<<

It is harder to match, especially since you need not just a specific gender but a specific moiety, and then compatibility with 3 other partners. Then add the fact that singles of mature age would be hard to find, unless you lose one partner very early and can search unmarried people.